De-escalate

The next time you are getting mad,  

and feel like you're ready to fight, 

Make yourself say,   

"I Understand." or, "You know, you might be right."




Avoid today's battle.

Try to say no more.   

It's a win-win for everyone.

You might miss out on a war.    


Those few words can change things, 

Nod.  Look into their eyes.

Agreeing invites confusion.    

Anger turns in to surprise. 




Did they win, or did you?

That's difficult to state,

At least you did all you could do,  

to de-escalate.



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