De-escalate

The next time you start getting mad,  

and feel like you're ready to fight, 

Make yourself say,   

"I Understand." or, "You know, you might be right."




Avoid today's battle.

Try hard to say no more.   

It's a win-win for everyone.

You might miss out on a war.    


Those few words can change things, 

Quietly nod. Look into their eyes.

Agreeing invites confusion.    

Anger turns into surprise. 




Did they win, or did you?

That is difficult to state,

At least you did all you could do,  

to de-escalate.



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